The will in mutual love
Will
[preamble]
The will makes love the result of an active choice, which takes from the self to give; attraction and emotion precede will, like sympathy, falling in love or condescension.
In fully human love the will intervenes and decides in favor of the other person to whom to give oneself and devote himself totally.
Illicit love is not inevitable, and no one is ever forced to love, but everybody is always responsible for the love for another person.